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Nikki Amber

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The One Who Tries, The One Who Tires

I’ve spent my life being the one to reach out, repair, and keep connections alive — with family, friends, and partners. But I’m finally…

Mar 20

The One Who Tries, The One Who Tires

Mar 20

How I Got My Financial Wake-Up Call — And What I’m Doing About It

I fell into a Caleb Hammer rabbit hole — and it made me rethink everything about my finances.

Feb 9

How I Got My Financial Wake-Up Call — And What I’m Doing About It

Feb 9

Published in
Modern Women

Don’t Threaten to Abandon Me

How threats of abandonment can erode trust and harm relationships — and why setting healthy communication standards matters.

Jan 22

Don’t Threaten to Abandon Me

Jan 22

Digital Minimalism in 2025: Breaking Free from Facebook

Breaking free from the social media cycle and finding true connection.

Jan 15

Digital Minimalism in 2025: Breaking Free from Facebook

Jan 15

Published in
Modern Women

Why I’m Choosing Celibacy as a Political Stance: Embracing the 4B Movement in the Wake of the…

In response to election results that reveal a disregard for women’s health, I’m committing to a path of celibacy — not just for personal…

Nov 6, 2024

Why I’m Choosing Celibacy as a Political Stance: Embracing the 4B Movement in the Wake of the…

Nov 6, 2024

Published in
Modern Women

Beyond the Borderline: Discovering Autism and ADHD in Myself

Why I’m Retracting My BPD Diagnosis and Embracing a New Understanding of Neurodiversity

Oct 24, 2024

Beyond the Borderline: Discovering Autism and ADHD in Myself

Oct 24, 2024

Misogyny & Misandry, Racism & Prejudice: They are not Equal in Meaning

People tend to mistake feminism for misandry, and even still, they think that it is comparable to misogyny. The same is said about racism…

Oct 23, 2024

Misogyny & Misandry, Racism & Prejudice: They are not Equal in Meaning

Oct 23, 2024

Published in
Modern Women

I Will Live in NYC by the Time I’m 36

I’ve changed my mind so many times on what I want out of life but my mind keeps creeping back to the big apple.

Sep 2, 2024

I Will Live in NYC by the Time I’m 36

Sep 2, 2024

I’m Not Following Your Gender Rules

A rant/story about letting go of tradition and embracing a modern lifestyle.

Jun 21, 2024

I’m Not Following Your Gender Rules

Jun 21, 2024

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder: How it’s Presented in My Life & What I’m Doing to…

BPD is a highly stigmatized personality disorder that the media gets wrong most of the time. What is it for me?

Mar 1, 2024

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder: How it’s Presented in My Life & What I’m Doing to…

Mar 1, 2024

Nikki Amber

Nikki Amber

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Freelance writer for local publications. Provides services for technical writing, resume building and editing/proofreading.

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